The Sex Bucket List: 10 Things to Try Before Summer Ends

💦 My Summer Sex Bucket List (Because Why Not)

Not y’all thinking I was gonna let the summer pass by without turning the heat all the way up 😌

I put together a little grown-woman bucket list — playful, a lil nasty, but very real. Whether you’re boo’d up, outside, or just in the mood to feel sexy again, try a few. Or all 10 if you’re feeling spicy.

No pressure. Just pleasure.

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1. Do it somewhere lowkey risky.

Not telling you to get arrested, babe. Just saying… balcony, empty parking garage, backseat, a lil Airbnb patio. You grown. Make it count.

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2. Wear lingerie you’d never normally wear… under your clothes.

Not for him. Not for them. For you. You ever been out in public with a secret like that under your dress? You start moving different.

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3. Public touch, no noise.

That moment at dinner when they slide their hand under the table and you gotta pretend to hold a conversation like nothing’s happening? Yeah… that one.

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4. Send that bold pic.

Not the obvious nude either. Something they gotta look at twice. A lil tease. A lil “you don’t get this until later.”

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5. Just kisses. Only.

Forehead. Neck. Lips. Inner thighs. But don’t go all the way. The tension will eat y’all alive (in the best way).

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6. Let them watch. Or you watch them.

Mutual touch is intense. Real intimate. And you learn so much about each other. Vulnerability is sexy too.

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7. Use a toy during.

Not just solo play — bring it into the mix. On you. On them. Between both of you. Double the fun.

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8. Slow it all the way down.

Think bath, body oil, candlelight, and R&B. Touch just to touch. No rush. No goal. Just vibes.

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9. Try a lil roleplay.

You don’t have to go full character mode. Try to pretend you don’t know each other. Or switch roles. Be a brat. Be a good girl. Be the one giving the rules for once .

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10. Write a fantasy and actually send it.

A paragraph. A note. A text. Something sexy. Detailed. Visual. And then let them act it out…

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💋 Bonus challenge:

Pick 3 and knock them out before summer ends. If you’re bold, do all 10. And if something changes your life, tell me later. Or don’t. 😏